I firmly believe that we, as a society, need to find new role models for our boys and young men. We need to do this quickly. Traditionally, we’ve expected boys to look up to movie stars, sportsmen, musicians, politicians, and the business elite. Yet, the starry ensemble has repeatedly shown itself unworthy of this honor.
Our designated role models wantonly display either ignorance of or ambivalence to the didactic element of their elevated status. They willingly take the benefits that society is happy to pile upon them, yet few, it would seem, ever give proper consideration to the multitude of responsibilities they have to those who model overtly themselves upon them.
Perhaps it’s unfair to expect so much from these Alpha males. Introspection is not a trait usually associated with this personality type. Essentially, masculinity in our society is in crisis because we’ve asked our young to emulate those who consistently exhibit some of the gender’s worst traits.
Kind, considerate, inclusive, sensible, thoughtful men do not make exciting heroes – not on screen, at least. They do, however, make great role models for men and would, if allowed, do wonders for our society.
via We Don’t Need Another Hero – The Good Men Project
I’m pleased to be featured once more in The Good Men Project.
Please do have a read of the link above. As a society we need to change what we expect from men, or we will continue to suffer the consequences.
Chris McGuire
The Out of Depth Dad 
Amen! I couldn’t agree with you more. Sandy
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I have 3 sons, all over age 18 and they will be getting directed to this site! I’ve spent their whole lives trying to ensure they grow into good men and they seem to be on the right path. They quietly go about life helping others and doing things to enrich our community. As a woman, I feel it’s my duty to ensure that my children and grandchildren understand the importance of a hard working man that does his best to provide for those under his care. Cartoons such as the Simpsons, American Dad, and Family Guy should be banned. Along with any other entertainment that mocks a man.
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Hi Anna, thanks for getting in touch. While I don’t think anything should be ‘banned’, I do think that less unhelpful images of masculinity should be highlighted. Great to connect.
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Great post! So true! I love your writing style. Great depth to this piece we need to have more than one type of male role
Model. You’re a great writer.
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Thanks – that’s really kind. Glad you agree!
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Thanks, really glad you enjoyed the piece. Great to connect. C
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